Description
You Love Your Family. But You’re Tired of Drowning in Silent Guilt.
Support Shouldn’t Cost You Your Sanity — or Your Future.
You’re living abroad — working hard, building a life, chasing dreams.
But every month, you get the messages:
“Please send something small.”
“Your cousin is in the hospital.”
“Uncle needs help with rent.”
“You’re doing well over there. Anything you can do?”
The expectation is constant.
The pressure is invisible.
And the truth?
Giving is starting to hurt.
Introducing: When Giving Hurts
By Andrew Airahuobhor, author of The Balancing Act and The Diaspora Couple
This digital guide is your honest, practical, and compassionate roadmap to navigating the emotional toll and financial strain of supporting family from abroad, without falling apart.
Whether you’re Nigerian, Ghanaian, Caribbean, Kenyan, Somali, or part of any immigrant community, this book is for you, the one holding everything together.
What You’ll Learn Inside
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How to Set Boundaries Without Breaking Relationships
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The Hidden Psychology of “Black Tax” and Diaspora Guilt
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Budgeting Strategies That Include—but Don’t Swallow—Support
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What to Say (and How) When You Have to Say “No”
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Navigating Emergency Requests Without Panic
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Shifting from Constant Remittance to Sustainable Empowerment
Who It’s For
This guide is for you if:
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You feel guilty every time you send “just something small.”
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You love your family, but feel financially suffocated
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You’ve delayed your goals to keep others afloat
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You’re afraid of being called selfish
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You’ve ever lied about “not getting paid yet” just to protect your peace
What You Get
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📕 60+ pages of real-world wisdom & cultural insight
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🧠 Built-in reflection prompts and boundary-setting scripts
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🔒 Instant PDF download — yours to keep and revisit anytime
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🎁 Bonus: “Diaspora Boundary Phrases” Cheat Sheet
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💳 Only $9.99 USD
Buy once. Access forever.
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About the Author
Andrew Airahuobhor is a Nigerian-born author, journalist, and community reintegration specialist based in Canada. Through books like The Balancing Act, Unless You Become, and The Diaspora Couple, he helps African and immigrant families navigate the tension between faith, culture, and modern survival. He is the founder of Akatarian Media and the Garden of Covenant Network.
Reader Testimonials
“This book said what I was too afraid to say out loud. I cried, highlighted, and finally breathed.”
— Joy N., Diasporan in the UK
“I’ve read books about money. But this one? It’s about my life.”
— Kingsley, Ghanaian in the US
🧳 You don’t have to feel torn between duty and your dreams.
💬 You don’t have to choose between silence and survival.
📘 When Giving Hurts shows you how to give with wisdom — and still build a life you love.
👉 Download it now and start reclaiming your peace.
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